Ever wonder what kids dream about, or worse- what gives them nightmares? What's so traumatic about being three, you might wonder, that it would rouse you from a dead sleep? Well I'm glad you asked.
Two nights ago Bradley woke up crying in the middle of the night. When I got to his room, in between the sobs, he exclaimed, "I don't like my little monster truck! I want a big monster truck!" Now mind now, it's not like he's in a "monster truck phase" or something. He rarely plays with trucks, so this was totally out of the blue. Good thing it was dark so B couldn't see me laughing silently at his predicament.
He settled down pretty quickly and fell back asleep. The next morning I asked him if he remembered dreaming about monster trucks, and I asked him what upset him so much. He told me that he dreamed he had taken a monster truck from a little girl, and that Grandma B took the truck away from him! At this, I couldn't stifle my laughter. Since Grandma is almost always the good guy, and I as the single parent, am always the bad guy, I relished this opportunity to laugh at Bradley being so upset with her.
So that, my friends, is what three year old nightmares are all about, and apparently Grandma B is the Freddy Krueger of Elmo Street.
Tuesday, March 20, 2012
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Bradley's Bracket
I grew up in a household that was basketball crazy. Every March, we would each fill out our NCAA tournament brackets and post them in the kitchen to compare our picks. Laura & I used to fight over who got to highlight the winners after each round.
Now the bracket picks legacy has been passed on to Little B. Mom sat him down and went round by round and asked him who he thought would win between each school mascot. Check out this winning bracket:
Humorously, he has the Kentucky Wildcats playing the St. Bonaventure Bonnies playing in the national title game. Let the traditions begin, and let's go Wildcats!
Now the bracket picks legacy has been passed on to Little B. Mom sat him down and went round by round and asked him who he thought would win between each school mascot. Check out this winning bracket:
Humorously, he has the Kentucky Wildcats playing the St. Bonaventure Bonnies playing in the national title game. Let the traditions begin, and let's go Wildcats!
Sunday, March 11, 2012
The Tree of Life
Spring has sprung in middle Tennessee. We had such a mild winter that all of the flowers and trees are blooming, and Easter's still nearly a month away.
Mom & Dad have this beautiful tree in their backyard which we've identified as a Chinese Magnolia. Every spring the tree blooms these gorgeous flowers, and less than a week later, the flowers fall, blanketing the yard in soft white petals resembling a spring snow leaving the branches bare until the leaves come in and take over.
The past several years I've made a point to take a picture with Bradley in front of the blooming tree, and so I thought it might be neat to see the passage of time in pictures:
And no, I haven't yet seen the Terrence Malek film for which I wittily named this post, but I'll get around to it eventually.
Mom & Dad have this beautiful tree in their backyard which we've identified as a Chinese Magnolia. Every spring the tree blooms these gorgeous flowers, and less than a week later, the flowers fall, blanketing the yard in soft white petals resembling a spring snow leaving the branches bare until the leaves come in and take over.
The past several years I've made a point to take a picture with Bradley in front of the blooming tree, and so I thought it might be neat to see the passage of time in pictures:
2010
Bradley age 21 months
2011
Bradley age 2 1/2
2012
Bradley age 3 1/2
Monday, March 05, 2012
Saturday Shopping
I must have been crazy, but I decided to take B with me to the mall and to Walmart on Saturday... by myself... at naptime. My rationale was that I had a few things I needed, and because of our timetable, we had to forego the nap and go in the afternoon. I didn't want to sacrifice my time with B, plus, there's the advantage of spending control when you shop with a child- their attention span is only so long, so it cuts down the unnecessary browsing (and ultimately spending)! So off we went, while Mom & Dad cheered on the Murray State Racers to an OVC championship.
To my delight- he was an angel. He listened to me and stayed by my side, and even gave his imput on the items I was purchasing. We broke up the trips to the individual mall stores with a ride on the carousel, split a free pretzel from the mall kiosk, and I let him expend some energy running around the kids' play area. After the mall, we shared some snacks in the car, and then made our Wally World run, which
culminated with a ride on the merry go round there AND a turn playing the claw game. (To Anonymous, these pictures were taken on my iPhone.)
All in all, it was a productive and fun afternoon spent.
To my delight- he was an angel. He listened to me and stayed by my side, and even gave his imput on the items I was purchasing. We broke up the trips to the individual mall stores with a ride on the carousel, split a free pretzel from the mall kiosk, and I let him expend some energy running around the kids' play area. After the mall, we shared some snacks in the car, and then made our Wally World run, which
culminated with a ride on the merry go round there AND a turn playing the claw game. (To Anonymous, these pictures were taken on my iPhone.)
All in all, it was a productive and fun afternoon spent.
Thursday, March 01, 2012
Rhyme Time
I haven't done any posts on what B is up to these days, so here's a quick rundown:
It really is true what they say about kids: everything is a phase. If something B is doing is driving me crazy (getting out of bed in the middle of the night... wetting himself at nap time... obsessed with Tom & Jerry) give it a few weeks, and the phase has passed. Unfortunately, it can work both ways, and suddenly my angel can be a crab for several moody weeks as well.
Most exciting these days is that B has recently figured out rhyming words. He will offer up several pairs of words- like car and bar, and tree and bree (okay, they're not always real words, but we're getting there) and he lights up when he realizes he's made up a rhyming pair. As a self-proclaimed grammarphile, it makes me beam with pride that he's so interested in the English language.
These days, the favorite tv shows are Mike the Knight, the Backyardigans, Team Umizoomi, and Word Girl.
The Buddah belly is still there and he weighs in around 38 pounds- still short and stocky for his age.
I'm in denial about his hair. I still maintain that it's strawberry blonde, but most of the time anyone who meets him for the first time will comment on his Red hair.
Bradley loves Star Wars and Superheros. He can't get enough of watching both on tv and dressing up in his various costumes and sword fighting and/or light saber fighting. Oh, and of course, he calls it his life saver. And he always says, I'm "be-tending," and likes to play with "marvelworks" (marbles). He is quite taken with Wonder Woman, and told me the other night that Wonder Woman was pretty, and that he wanted to touch her boobies! He is 3 1/2. Where does he come up with this stuff??
Tonight, the creme de la creme: Mommy, you're beautiful. And he told me that I was prettier than Wonder Woman. Considering what a fox he thinks Wonder Woman is, I'll take that compliment.
It really is true what they say about kids: everything is a phase. If something B is doing is driving me crazy (getting out of bed in the middle of the night... wetting himself at nap time... obsessed with Tom & Jerry) give it a few weeks, and the phase has passed. Unfortunately, it can work both ways, and suddenly my angel can be a crab for several moody weeks as well.
Most exciting these days is that B has recently figured out rhyming words. He will offer up several pairs of words- like car and bar, and tree and bree (okay, they're not always real words, but we're getting there) and he lights up when he realizes he's made up a rhyming pair. As a self-proclaimed grammarphile, it makes me beam with pride that he's so interested in the English language.
These days, the favorite tv shows are Mike the Knight, the Backyardigans, Team Umizoomi, and Word Girl.
The Buddah belly is still there and he weighs in around 38 pounds- still short and stocky for his age.
I'm in denial about his hair. I still maintain that it's strawberry blonde, but most of the time anyone who meets him for the first time will comment on his Red hair.
Bradley loves Star Wars and Superheros. He can't get enough of watching both on tv and dressing up in his various costumes and sword fighting and/or light saber fighting. Oh, and of course, he calls it his life saver. And he always says, I'm "be-tending," and likes to play with "marvelworks" (marbles). He is quite taken with Wonder Woman, and told me the other night that Wonder Woman was pretty, and that he wanted to touch her boobies! He is 3 1/2. Where does he come up with this stuff??
Tonight, the creme de la creme: Mommy, you're beautiful. And he told me that I was prettier than Wonder Woman. Considering what a fox he thinks Wonder Woman is, I'll take that compliment.
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
Buh-bye Anonymous
Due to some pretty hateful anonymous blog posts, readers are now required to sign in using a Google ID to post comments. Since most of you reading don't post comments anyways, feel free to keep silently lurking. And for those of you who take the effort to use a Google ID, I promise you won't regret it. Google is taking over the world, and sooner or later you'd need a Google ID anyways.
And to the person or persons posting the controversial anonymous comments, just remember that there are always 2 sides to every story, and while I understand that you are entitled to your own opinions, it would be nice if you could confront me personally and own up to your opinions with a name attached to those comments.
And to the person or persons posting the controversial anonymous comments, just remember that there are always 2 sides to every story, and while I understand that you are entitled to your own opinions, it would be nice if you could confront me personally and own up to your opinions with a name attached to those comments.
Occupy Memorial
Saturday night was one for the books. It was one of those spontaneous, hilarious nights that take me back to the good ole' days of the Diva Domain when funny Nashville going-out stories abounded.
I found out Saturday after Zumba class that former Sugar Shack roomie-turned-Nashvillian, Anne, was able to score us free tickets to the Vandy- Kentucky game Saturday night. Well, to be more accurate, her husband Darren is the one who got the tickets, but he had an out of town bachelor party to attend... so sad... so that left me to go in his place! I was literally dancing in the door when I found out. We decided to meet up at her house and ride together, grab a quick bite to eat and a few beers, and then get to Memorial in plenty of time to see the game. You see, unlike fairweather Vandy fans, we like to come early and stay late.
Anne and I are both the proud owners of the new IPhone 4S. We are also both inept at using said devices expertly to find places to eat near Memorial Gym. We knew we wanted to check out Corner Pub since it was being touted as The Place for Kentucky fans to hang before and during the game. After a long circle of Vanderbilt's campus, and finally employing Siri to help us navigate downtown, we found our destination. While it was impressive to see a bar full of blue, the potential for a seat and any kind of food was lacking. After checking out the small quarters, we decided we would be better off finding another spot to dine before the game. By this time, it was dark, and I was already starting to panic that we wouldn't have time to find a new location, eat, and get to the game on time.
Again, I utilized my iPhone to pull up nearby restaurants, and we settled for Chili's due to its free parking, and close proximity to campus. The place was packed, so after putting our name on the list, we pushed through all the people in the bar to try and get a few drinks while we waited, in hopes that someone would leave and we could take their table in the bar. No such luck. Every person in there it seemed, were doing the same thing we were- killing time before the big game, so nobody was going anywhere any time soon. I pushed up to an open corner of the bar to order drinks in between 2 nice-looking Kentucky fans. After a while, we discovered that a) they were Richie Farmer's cousins {Richie Farmer- a famous UK player from 1992, the team known as The Unforgettables}. They even pulled out their driver's licenses to prove their heritage. Yes, Mikey and Rudy weren't pulling our legs- Their last name was Farmer. And yes, I of course had to start the infamous slow Rudy chant, upon discovering Cousin #1's first name. and b) the second funny thing about these two guys is that they are literally farmers by trade in northern Tennessee. I once knew an attorney who's last name was lawyer and she didn't seem to get as big a kick out of that ironic cooincidence as you might think.
Anne and I had a good ole time at Chili's talking to the Vandy fans behind us, Richie Farmer's cousins at the bar, watching basketball on the big screens, witnessing a near bar-fight between rowdy fans behind us, scarfing down a shared appetizer, and generally getting super-pumped about seeing our beloved #1 ranked Wildcats in action.
About 45 minutes til gametime, we walked over to the gym with Richie Farmer's cousins, and a whole crowd of other people en mass for the game. Our seats were on the second level, towards the back and weren't as close as I would have liked, but hey, at least we were there! I giddily snapped pictures of Coach Cal and the team as they warmed up. There was far too much back and gold in that place for my taste, although we did befriend the Kentucky fans behind us, and would flash each other the "Three Goggles" whenever our team drained one. Anne and I both agreed it was too stressful a game. Watching live, you miss a lot of the details, and there's no benefit of having instant replay or analysis from the commentators when they aren't jabbering about unrelated topics.
It was a close game, but the Wildcats prevailed. It felt good to be able to cheer Kentucky on to a road game win, and after the game we made our way back to the Corner Pub and it was like being transported back to Lexington there was so much blue in that place! For these 2 UK grads it was a fantastic night out in Nashvegas.
I found out Saturday after Zumba class that former Sugar Shack roomie-turned-Nashvillian, Anne, was able to score us free tickets to the Vandy- Kentucky game Saturday night. Well, to be more accurate, her husband Darren is the one who got the tickets, but he had an out of town bachelor party to attend... so sad... so that left me to go in his place! I was literally dancing in the door when I found out. We decided to meet up at her house and ride together, grab a quick bite to eat and a few beers, and then get to Memorial in plenty of time to see the game. You see, unlike fairweather Vandy fans, we like to come early and stay late.
Anne and I are both the proud owners of the new IPhone 4S. We are also both inept at using said devices expertly to find places to eat near Memorial Gym. We knew we wanted to check out Corner Pub since it was being touted as The Place for Kentucky fans to hang before and during the game. After a long circle of Vanderbilt's campus, and finally employing Siri to help us navigate downtown, we found our destination. While it was impressive to see a bar full of blue, the potential for a seat and any kind of food was lacking. After checking out the small quarters, we decided we would be better off finding another spot to dine before the game. By this time, it was dark, and I was already starting to panic that we wouldn't have time to find a new location, eat, and get to the game on time.
Again, I utilized my iPhone to pull up nearby restaurants, and we settled for Chili's due to its free parking, and close proximity to campus. The place was packed, so after putting our name on the list, we pushed through all the people in the bar to try and get a few drinks while we waited, in hopes that someone would leave and we could take their table in the bar. No such luck. Every person in there it seemed, were doing the same thing we were- killing time before the big game, so nobody was going anywhere any time soon. I pushed up to an open corner of the bar to order drinks in between 2 nice-looking Kentucky fans. After a while, we discovered that a) they were Richie Farmer's cousins {Richie Farmer- a famous UK player from 1992, the team known as The Unforgettables}. They even pulled out their driver's licenses to prove their heritage. Yes, Mikey and Rudy weren't pulling our legs- Their last name was Farmer. And yes, I of course had to start the infamous slow Rudy chant, upon discovering Cousin #1's first name. and b) the second funny thing about these two guys is that they are literally farmers by trade in northern Tennessee. I once knew an attorney who's last name was lawyer and she didn't seem to get as big a kick out of that ironic cooincidence as you might think.
Anne and I had a good ole time at Chili's talking to the Vandy fans behind us, Richie Farmer's cousins at the bar, watching basketball on the big screens, witnessing a near bar-fight between rowdy fans behind us, scarfing down a shared appetizer, and generally getting super-pumped about seeing our beloved #1 ranked Wildcats in action.
About 45 minutes til gametime, we walked over to the gym with Richie Farmer's cousins, and a whole crowd of other people en mass for the game. Our seats were on the second level, towards the back and weren't as close as I would have liked, but hey, at least we were there! I giddily snapped pictures of Coach Cal and the team as they warmed up. There was far too much back and gold in that place for my taste, although we did befriend the Kentucky fans behind us, and would flash each other the "Three Goggles" whenever our team drained one. Anne and I both agreed it was too stressful a game. Watching live, you miss a lot of the details, and there's no benefit of having instant replay or analysis from the commentators when they aren't jabbering about unrelated topics.
It was a close game, but the Wildcats prevailed. It felt good to be able to cheer Kentucky on to a road game win, and after the game we made our way back to the Corner Pub and it was like being transported back to Lexington there was so much blue in that place! For these 2 UK grads it was a fantastic night out in Nashvegas.
Monday, February 20, 2012
The Weezers
"My best friend Heather from home," which is how many of have heard me to refer to her, was in town this weekend. Bradley and I drove over to west Nashville on Saturday and met Heather and her sister Angie, and poor Bradley was such a trooper as we hopped from place to place. We had lunch at Bluecoast Burrito, then went to Steinmart, Angie's house, Fabu, the Container store and a few other places in Green Hills mall, and finally to Maffiozas for dinner. He went with us from store to store and was an angel even though he wasn't really looking "with his eyes and not with his hands" like I asked him to, but he's 3, what do you expect?!
Right as we were leaving lunch, Angie let Bradley in on a little secret: Heather's childhood nickname: Weezer. Well B thought this was just
about the funniest thing ever, and so the next store we went to, he
hollared loudly for Weezer in every single aisle, much to the
amusement of the other Steinmart patrons. What goes around comes
around, they say, so Bradley connected the dots and determined that if Heather was "Weezer," then Angie must be the "Other Weezer." So
that's what he called them all weekend. Sunday morning, he woke up and wanted to know where "the Weezers" were!
The Weezers came over for a late Sunday lunch, and then since
Bradley's daycare was closed for professional development on Monday,
he and I got to spend the entire day playing with Weez. We picked up
Heather and drove to get hot tea from Starbucks, and then to the open
gym time at Pump It Up where Bradley proceeded to expend lots of
energy in a 2 hour period, and Heather and I got time to sit and catch
up. We even almost got dragged into a Brentwood Mom fight between
these two women whose kids were being bullied.
Side-stepping the mama drama, we convinved Bradley without too much
trouble that it was time to leave Pump It Up and go get some lunch.
Heather's and my "thing" growing up was chicken fingers, and knowing
she doesn't have an abundance of chicken finger places up her way, we
decided to go to McDougall's. I'll admit, I was really tempted to
cave and enjoy some fried buffalo tenders, but spotting the grilled
cheese on the menu, I went with that. Until I truly decide where I stand on the whole eating meat issue, I didn't want to cave now.
After lunch, we went home and I got Bradley down for his nap then
Heather and I had a little Grey's Anatomy/Private Practive mini
marathon. We colored, played Bat Cave and baseball with B once he got
up from his nap, and then enjoyed an early supper of breakfast-for-dinner, where I made Heather the most utterly boring omelet ever, (Seriously. Just Italian seasoning? No cheese? Who
does that?) followed by a semi-healthy dessert of chocolate fondue with fruit.
I dropped Heather off that night, and then met up for one last dinner
hurrah last night at Chuy's before she departed again for the land of
the yuppies and fiber-optic cable, where Angie and I had a laugh at
Heather's expense at the Blondie Cowboy Mouth event, and the story
about the man who had "the AIDS" helping her put air in her tire in
the ghetto. The visits are never long enough, but I love that we always pick up right where we left off. Until next time, Weezer!
Right as we were leaving lunch, Angie let Bradley in on a little secret: Heather's childhood nickname: Weezer. Well B thought this was just
about the funniest thing ever, and so the next store we went to, he
hollared loudly for Weezer in every single aisle, much to the
amusement of the other Steinmart patrons. What goes around comes
around, they say, so Bradley connected the dots and determined that if Heather was "Weezer," then Angie must be the "Other Weezer." So
that's what he called them all weekend. Sunday morning, he woke up and wanted to know where "the Weezers" were!
The Weezers came over for a late Sunday lunch, and then since
Bradley's daycare was closed for professional development on Monday,
he and I got to spend the entire day playing with Weez. We picked up
Heather and drove to get hot tea from Starbucks, and then to the open
gym time at Pump It Up where Bradley proceeded to expend lots of
energy in a 2 hour period, and Heather and I got time to sit and catch
up. We even almost got dragged into a Brentwood Mom fight between
these two women whose kids were being bullied.
Side-stepping the mama drama, we convinved Bradley without too much
trouble that it was time to leave Pump It Up and go get some lunch.
Heather's and my "thing" growing up was chicken fingers, and knowing
she doesn't have an abundance of chicken finger places up her way, we
decided to go to McDougall's. I'll admit, I was really tempted to
cave and enjoy some fried buffalo tenders, but spotting the grilled
cheese on the menu, I went with that. Until I truly decide where I stand on the whole eating meat issue, I didn't want to cave now.
After lunch, we went home and I got Bradley down for his nap then
Heather and I had a little Grey's Anatomy/Private Practive mini
marathon. We colored, played Bat Cave and baseball with B once he got
up from his nap, and then enjoyed an early supper of breakfast-for-dinner, where I made Heather the most utterly boring omelet ever, (Seriously. Just Italian seasoning? No cheese? Who
does that?) followed by a semi-healthy dessert of chocolate fondue with fruit.
I dropped Heather off that night, and then met up for one last dinner
hurrah last night at Chuy's before she departed again for the land of
the yuppies and fiber-optic cable, where Angie and I had a laugh at
Heather's expense at the Blondie Cowboy Mouth event, and the story
about the man who had "the AIDS" helping her put air in her tire in
the ghetto. The visits are never long enough, but I love that we always pick up right where we left off. Until next time, Weezer!
Thursday, February 02, 2012
Be Careful What You Pray For
New job + New iPhone = Blog shifting to the bottom of my priority pile.
But I've promised myself I wouldn't give it up because I love writing too much. So even if it's just me writing and reading, even if some of the silent lurkers don't want to, or can't figure out to post comments with a Google Account (There IS always the anonymous route, I'm just sayin... you can type your name, even), I still have life events I want to document, current events to comment on, and perspective to share. Today's post is a long time coming, and the moral of the story is this: Be Careful What You Pray For ... because it just might happen.
Backing up, I shared 2 prayer requests for 2011 with my Small Group/Sunday school class at church. 1) For Bradley & I to have a place of our own to live, and 2) For me to trust God with my finances and commit to tithing. Now here it is 2012, and while I don't yet have a place of my own to live, I do believe that God honors our prayers and He's not on my timeline, so even though the year has come and gone, doesn't mean that my prayers were in vain. My other request had to do with finances. As a single mom, it's tough to make ends meet. I won't play up the circumstances because I know there are many moms out there who have it worse than me. Still it's tough when almost all of my small income goes towards paying for daycare and gas to get to work. So it would be easy to hoard my money in the name of being financially responsible and promise Jesus that I will start my giving once I have a better job, or once I have X amount in savings, or once I have a house... but those events-to-come are never ending, and I know there will always be an unexpected emergency to pay for, or some fun opportunity out of the blue that costs more money that I had planned on spending. So I understand that the time to give back to God is now.
You hear over and over that if God gives you a little, and you are trustworthy with what He gives you, He'll give you more. I'd tithed to church in the past, and I support missionaries and other causes, but my 2011 resolution was to be consistant with tithing as a starting point, with the intent that it would become a habit and I would give more down the road.
So that's the backstory- I was praying for my finances in 2011, and asking God to help me trust Him. Well when God's people start praying, God gives you tests aka opportunities to strengthen your faith.
About halfway through 2011, some residual effects from my divorce left me suddenly, soley, legally responsible for over $10,000.00 in credit card debt. There was much wailing and gnashing of teeth the day I found out about my new predicament, and yep, I absolutely blamed God. "Why am I being punished over and over?" were my cries to Jesus. "It isn't fair, this isn't my fault." So I did what believers do when faced with trials. I prayed. A lot. And I asked a lot of you to pray with me. After a few weeks, I came to the realization finally that the amount of money being asked of me was so great, that I had no choice but to pray. Anything smaller and I would have come up with a game plan, and figured out my payments with the credit card company, and set to paying off debt for the rest of my life. BUT (and God is funny like that) the amount might as well have been a million dollars as far as I was concerned. So I reached a point of peace where I left it in God's hands. I made some phone calls and I wrote some letters (God certainly has blessed me with the gift of writing, so again, the credit goes to Him) but one day I called and discovered that the debt had been erased. 100% gone.
Not to get all hyper-spiritual, but it was like my own real-life example of Jesus dying for my sins- forgiven in an instant with no way to repay Him- the grace and mercy of God at its finest. I was overjoyed. This was a real-life miracle. We all know what shape our economy is in, and credit card companies don't just wipe away thousands of dollars just because. But I prayed to trust God with my finances, and in that time of financial stress, I got my opportunity.
I share this story not to place blame on anyone, and not to glorify myself, in fact, I felt guilty for not praying more during those months, but I share this to show how Awesome God is. Modern day miracles do happen. I didn't hear God speak to me, but I did read lots of Bible verses about trusting God, and I sensed a peace wash over me when I realized this was just one of those things I was gonna have to trust Him with.
Be careful what you pray for, because God hears your prayers, and will honor those prayers in His time. It makes me wonder how many other prayers I might have flippantly offered to God, and then not followed through. Maybe a challenge or an opportunity presented itself but because I wasn't doing my part in spending time talking to God about, or making sure my heart was lined up with what God would want, I missed it. Anyways, this was one of the biggest events of 2011 for me, so I wanted to share it with you.
God hears our prayers, and He is Good All the Time.
But I've promised myself I wouldn't give it up because I love writing too much. So even if it's just me writing and reading, even if some of the silent lurkers don't want to, or can't figure out to post comments with a Google Account (There IS always the anonymous route, I'm just sayin... you can type your name, even), I still have life events I want to document, current events to comment on, and perspective to share. Today's post is a long time coming, and the moral of the story is this: Be Careful What You Pray For ... because it just might happen.
Backing up, I shared 2 prayer requests for 2011 with my Small Group/Sunday school class at church. 1) For Bradley & I to have a place of our own to live, and 2) For me to trust God with my finances and commit to tithing. Now here it is 2012, and while I don't yet have a place of my own to live, I do believe that God honors our prayers and He's not on my timeline, so even though the year has come and gone, doesn't mean that my prayers were in vain. My other request had to do with finances. As a single mom, it's tough to make ends meet. I won't play up the circumstances because I know there are many moms out there who have it worse than me. Still it's tough when almost all of my small income goes towards paying for daycare and gas to get to work. So it would be easy to hoard my money in the name of being financially responsible and promise Jesus that I will start my giving once I have a better job, or once I have X amount in savings, or once I have a house... but those events-to-come are never ending, and I know there will always be an unexpected emergency to pay for, or some fun opportunity out of the blue that costs more money that I had planned on spending. So I understand that the time to give back to God is now.
You hear over and over that if God gives you a little, and you are trustworthy with what He gives you, He'll give you more. I'd tithed to church in the past, and I support missionaries and other causes, but my 2011 resolution was to be consistant with tithing as a starting point, with the intent that it would become a habit and I would give more down the road.
So that's the backstory- I was praying for my finances in 2011, and asking God to help me trust Him. Well when God's people start praying, God gives you tests aka opportunities to strengthen your faith.
About halfway through 2011, some residual effects from my divorce left me suddenly, soley, legally responsible for over $10,000.00 in credit card debt. There was much wailing and gnashing of teeth the day I found out about my new predicament, and yep, I absolutely blamed God. "Why am I being punished over and over?" were my cries to Jesus. "It isn't fair, this isn't my fault." So I did what believers do when faced with trials. I prayed. A lot. And I asked a lot of you to pray with me. After a few weeks, I came to the realization finally that the amount of money being asked of me was so great, that I had no choice but to pray. Anything smaller and I would have come up with a game plan, and figured out my payments with the credit card company, and set to paying off debt for the rest of my life. BUT (and God is funny like that) the amount might as well have been a million dollars as far as I was concerned. So I reached a point of peace where I left it in God's hands. I made some phone calls and I wrote some letters (God certainly has blessed me with the gift of writing, so again, the credit goes to Him) but one day I called and discovered that the debt had been erased. 100% gone.
Not to get all hyper-spiritual, but it was like my own real-life example of Jesus dying for my sins- forgiven in an instant with no way to repay Him- the grace and mercy of God at its finest. I was overjoyed. This was a real-life miracle. We all know what shape our economy is in, and credit card companies don't just wipe away thousands of dollars just because. But I prayed to trust God with my finances, and in that time of financial stress, I got my opportunity.
I share this story not to place blame on anyone, and not to glorify myself, in fact, I felt guilty for not praying more during those months, but I share this to show how Awesome God is. Modern day miracles do happen. I didn't hear God speak to me, but I did read lots of Bible verses about trusting God, and I sensed a peace wash over me when I realized this was just one of those things I was gonna have to trust Him with.
Be careful what you pray for, because God hears your prayers, and will honor those prayers in His time. It makes me wonder how many other prayers I might have flippantly offered to God, and then not followed through. Maybe a challenge or an opportunity presented itself but because I wasn't doing my part in spending time talking to God about, or making sure my heart was lined up with what God would want, I missed it. Anyways, this was one of the biggest events of 2011 for me, so I wanted to share it with you.
God hears our prayers, and He is Good All the Time.
Sunday, January 22, 2012
The Bargain
One day I drug Bradley with me to Walmart. A trip to the store for me is never quick as I am prone to get distracted and generally only move at one speed. As we were leaving, Bradley spotted the alcove of arcade games and asked to ride the merry go round. Feeling nostalgic from my childhood days of riding the rides at and in a good mood after making it out of Walmart in one piece with a three year old, I generously conceded and headed over to the game area.
Imagine my surprise when I saw the price tag for one merry go round ride: one whole dollar! No way was I paying a dollar for a measly kiddie ride. Now I love my son but that was not a wise use of my finances. Quickly I scanned the little machines with toys in them and I pointed to a row of machines on top. "you can pick anything from up here," I instructed benevolently.
So for half the cost of a ride on the merry go round, Bradley selected a purple ninja toy. "That's a bargain," I exclaimed. To my amusement, Bradley has taken to calling his 50 cent slot machine toy his "bargain."
Imagine my surprise when I saw the price tag for one merry go round ride: one whole dollar! No way was I paying a dollar for a measly kiddie ride. Now I love my son but that was not a wise use of my finances. Quickly I scanned the little machines with toys in them and I pointed to a row of machines on top. "you can pick anything from up here," I instructed benevolently.
So for half the cost of a ride on the merry go round, Bradley selected a purple ninja toy. "That's a bargain," I exclaimed. To my amusement, Bradley has taken to calling his 50 cent slot machine toy his "bargain."
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Fresh sugar
It's been quite a while since I've done any product reviews, and now here I am playing catch up with the blog, with another product to rave about that I simply cannot get enough of. It's the Fresh Sugar Tinted Lip Treatment. I have the Rose, and Laura has it in the Plum shade. We both have agreed it's a product we can't live without.
I'm not really sure what to classify it as- it doesn't give your lips a gloss, so much as it adds a hint of color with SPF protection, and smooth hydration. It goes on really creamy, and has an amazing citrus-y scent. The packing also feels really weighty in your hand, as opposed to some lightweight plastic Chapstick, so I think subconsciously, the heavier weighted product makes you feel like you're getting more bang for your buck.
My sister and I each got them in our stockings for Christmas 2010, and here is a picture of what my beloved lip product looks like, circa January 2012:
The product is totally worn down, and even the print on the packaging has worn off from so much use. A few days after this picture was taken, I finally had to toss the empty stick in the trash, and what a bittersweet moment that was.
As much as I used to be a total makeup whore, I am a recovering addict, trying not to buy products and use what's in my seemingly-never-ending arsenal of cosmetics. However, how often does one really finish an entire lip gloss? I mean, it takes forever, and in this case, a little over a year, so that should tell you how much I love this product, that I could use it up entirely in a year's time, and that I am prepared to purchase a replacement for it soon. They are pricey at $22.50 a pop at Sephora, but to me, worth the luxury expense.
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
Product Review: Sally Hansen Salon Effects
Sally Hansen Salon Effects are a fun way to get a unique and long-lasting manicure. They are nail polish sticker strips that you smooth on, peel the edges away, and the end result is a really fun mani.
My sister bought these for me on a whim when we were shopping together at Target before Christmas. One box is $7, and I wasn't willing to splurge, but she insisted and got them for me as a stocking stuffer. I was instructed to pick out a design that was fun and something I would never be able to do myself with regular nail polish, so I
selected a silver/black argyle print.
For someone with smaller/shorter nails, I have read reviews where people can get by with 2 applications in one box. My nails are such that I was only able to get one manicure out of the box. The product claims the polish will last for up to ten days, and I have found that to be true. I wore the polish for 15 or 16 days, and though the tips chipped probably around Day 10 or 12, the chipping isn't very noticeable (maybe because my chosen nail effects were a pattern so it's less noticeable) so I was able to stretch out the manicure.
The downside is that it took me about an hour to apply the strips one night, and that one package costs as much as an average-priced bottle of nail polish. The polish is also industrial strength and took me at least 9 cotton balls soaked in nail polish remover to remove the product.
geometric designs) without the cost of a professional manicure, and it lasts about 2 weeks. There's no waiting on drying time, and I have received tons of compliments on my nails since using this innovative product. I'm sure that if you wore them enough, you would become more speedy in applying them, too.
So there you go. That's my non-expert 2 cents. I'd love to hear from you if you've used these yourself.
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
Post-Christmas, Cannelton Style
Will the blogging ever get caught up? Who the heck knows. But in the meantime, we celebrated a belated Christmas with mom's side of the family this past weekend. All of the kids had a gift exchange, the Indiana fans humored us Kentucky fans and let us watch our SEC opener, and we had food and drinks galore, topped off with pizza from the Iron Gate. The mild weather allowed the guys to hang out outside by the fire pit at night, the kids to play downstairs and the women - where else- congregating in the kitchen!
Gang of Three
Just the 21 of us!
Laura & Dad snoozing through the end of the UK game
Braedon and Nicole are the Amanda and Ryan of this generation
Cousins
George and Eric talking politics or movies... probably politics!
The 2 Addies in their matching dresses. I had a little photo session with them! Here, they were instructed to show me their model faces:
"Angry faces!"
"Happy Faces"
A beautiful clear night, full moon, and plenty of guy talk
The get together was a cacophony of sounds, with kids running up and down the stairs, boisterous stories being told, humorous memories reminisced, sports, politics, and movies, and everything in between discussed, and as with any modern family, at any given moment, someone was updating Facebook or generally playing with their phone. Breakfast Sunday morning was satisfyingly yummy with a breakfast casserole, hash brown casserole, and five cinnamon rolls. There's always a funny food story, somehow. Thanks Lisa & Jerry for hosting the locusts.
Sunday, January 08, 2012
3G thesis
Right before Christmas I joined the smart phone world and bought myself the grand daddy of all smart phones, the iPhone 4s. I had never bought a phone before, always taking whatever free basic phone my carrier offered, so to leap into the world of 3G has been quite the life-changing event.
I can now check Facebook or blog on my lunch break if I want to. In fact, I am writing this post from the back seat of the car. I check the weather as I'm getting ready for work on the morning, and set reminders to my to- do list all day long as I think of tasks.
Maybe not coincidentally, though, since I have world wide web at at my finger tips at all times I have found myself shying away from the computer at night, hence I've done nothing with all the pictures and video taken from Christmas , and I haven't updated the blog in weeks.
At any rate, I'm satisfied with my purchase and long for the day when I can type expertly on the touch screen without all the typos and mis-capitalized words!
I can now check Facebook or blog on my lunch break if I want to. In fact, I am writing this post from the back seat of the car. I check the weather as I'm getting ready for work on the morning, and set reminders to my to- do list all day long as I think of tasks.
Maybe not coincidentally, though, since I have world wide web at at my finger tips at all times I have found myself shying away from the computer at night, hence I've done nothing with all the pictures and video taken from Christmas , and I haven't updated the blog in weeks.
At any rate, I'm satisfied with my purchase and long for the day when I can type expertly on the touch screen without all the typos and mis-capitalized words!
Saturday, December 24, 2011
Brentwood Busts
Here's your public service blog for any local readers.
The "live nativity" that Brenthaven Christian Church on Franklin Road is not what you might think, and definitely not worth your time. I told Bradley we would get to see live animals with baby Jesus, counting on some cows and sheep, and hoping for a donkey and a camel. What we got instead was a group of well- meaning church members dressed in Nikes and shepherds' robes, telling the story of the birth of Jesus in three stations, with wooden stand up animals, a fake fire pit for the shepherds, and a baby doll lying in a kid's crib as the manger. "Where are the real animals?" Bradley asked. "I don't know," I answered, thinking that perhaps at the final manger scene there would be the live farm animals. Alas, it was not to be.
Some of the participants didn't even have their lines memorized, and the whole presentation lasted about 15 or 20 minutes. I expected more out of a church in Brentwood. So if any locals know of any live nativities that might be a little more realistic, I'm all ears.
The second Brentwood bust is the upscale Mexican restaurant Sopapilla's. We went there last night for the first time to get together with some friends for Christmas, and while the food was excellent (albeit spicy) for the adults, this is NOT a kid-friendly restaurant. The kid's bean & cheese burrito I ordered for Bradley was so spicy it brought him to tears, and after trying it myself, I can see why. I pointed this out to the server at the end of the meal and told him that this was in no way acceptable for a child's menu item, and he remarked that another family had complained recently that the rice was too spicy, but that it must have been the beans after all. This place needs to get with the program and alter their recipes if they are even going to bother to offer a children's menu.
The "live nativity" that Brenthaven Christian Church on Franklin Road is not what you might think, and definitely not worth your time. I told Bradley we would get to see live animals with baby Jesus, counting on some cows and sheep, and hoping for a donkey and a camel. What we got instead was a group of well- meaning church members dressed in Nikes and shepherds' robes, telling the story of the birth of Jesus in three stations, with wooden stand up animals, a fake fire pit for the shepherds, and a baby doll lying in a kid's crib as the manger. "Where are the real animals?" Bradley asked. "I don't know," I answered, thinking that perhaps at the final manger scene there would be the live farm animals. Alas, it was not to be.
Some of the participants didn't even have their lines memorized, and the whole presentation lasted about 15 or 20 minutes. I expected more out of a church in Brentwood. So if any locals know of any live nativities that might be a little more realistic, I'm all ears.
The second Brentwood bust is the upscale Mexican restaurant Sopapilla's. We went there last night for the first time to get together with some friends for Christmas, and while the food was excellent (albeit spicy) for the adults, this is NOT a kid-friendly restaurant. The kid's bean & cheese burrito I ordered for Bradley was so spicy it brought him to tears, and after trying it myself, I can see why. I pointed this out to the server at the end of the meal and told him that this was in no way acceptable for a child's menu item, and he remarked that another family had complained recently that the rice was too spicy, but that it must have been the beans after all. This place needs to get with the program and alter their recipes if they are even going to bother to offer a children's menu.
Friday, December 16, 2011
Pickle Things You Never See
My brother-in-law George wrote a paper a few years ago for college wherein he slightly elaborated our family's St. Nick's Day traditions. According to him, we ate Pa's homemade cinnamon rolls, put up the tree while listening to Christmas carols, received our stockings, found the pickle on the Christmas tree, sipped hot cocoa by the fire, and watched Christmas Vacation that evening. Hey, it was a great paper!
While our St. Nick's Day was not quite that eventful, we still managed to pack it full. After a long day of work, we congregated for dinner of mom's round steak, mashed potatoes, and sides. After dinner we opened our stockings, and then George, Laura, and I hunted for the pickle on the tree. This was the first year George has gotten in on the pickle action, so it was only fair that he should walk away with the itunes gift card prize for finding the pickle.
One of my favorite books as a kid was "Pickle Things," and one of the lines of the book reads, "Pickle things you never see like pickles on a Christmas tree." I have this book out for B and it's one of the ones he can "read" from memory. Obviously, the writers of this book were not German though, as they must not have had hidden a pickle ornament on their Christmas trees.
Full from dinner, and sampling treats from our stockings, we did what the Bradleys always do; we stuffed ourselves full by eating dessert of course!
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| B with his ginormous stocking |
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| George & Bradley with their Superman Pez |
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| Dad with his kazoo from the Franklin Main Street toy store |
One of my favorite books as a kid was "Pickle Things," and one of the lines of the book reads, "Pickle things you never see like pickles on a Christmas tree." I have this book out for B and it's one of the ones he can "read" from memory. Obviously, the writers of this book were not German though, as they must not have had hidden a pickle ornament on their Christmas trees.
Full from dinner, and sampling treats from our stockings, we did what the Bradleys always do; we stuffed ourselves full by eating dessert of course!
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Kids' Christmas Concert
Tonight was Bradley's first-ever choir concert, and yes, I was way excited. He's been attending BBC's KidLife program on Wednesday nights while I'm in choir rehearsal, and tonight was the fruit of a semester's worth of labor. The 3-through- kindergarten kids performed 5 Christmas songs tonight. It was a battle to even get out the door since the chosen attire for Bradley did not include comfy pants and t-shirts. Our video we took was horrible, so the still shots will have to do.
This picture was taken during their practice- it's the closest he got to paying attention and participating all night.
For their performance, the kids wore party hats, in honor of Jesus' birthday. Bradley used his as a toy/prop the entire time he was up front, most of the time, donning the unicorn look!
Where's Bradley? Can you spot him sitting on the steps? (the Only child sitting on the steps, I might add!)
I'm at a loss of what to do now. I promised him an orange hat and gloves (his favorite color) if he sang "loud and proud," but since he didn't really do that, should I still reward him for just participating? I mean, he did sing, it was just into and behind his party hat! And anyways, I am proud of him for his performance tonight no matter what. I look forward to many, many more of these concerts down the road.
This picture was taken during their practice- it's the closest he got to paying attention and participating all night.
For their performance, the kids wore party hats, in honor of Jesus' birthday. Bradley used his as a toy/prop the entire time he was up front, most of the time, donning the unicorn look!
... or using it as a megaphone... though he's not the only one!
Where's Bradley? Can you spot him sitting on the steps? (the Only child sitting on the steps, I might add!)
I'm at a loss of what to do now. I promised him an orange hat and gloves (his favorite color) if he sang "loud and proud," but since he didn't really do that, should I still reward him for just participating? I mean, he did sing, it was just into and behind his party hat! And anyways, I am proud of him for his performance tonight no matter what. I look forward to many, many more of these concerts down the road.
Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Jolly Old Saint Nicholas
I don't like the Santa at Cool Springs Galleria, and I hate having to pay an arm and a leg for those pictures, so I resolved to find a free photo op this year for Bradley. Look no further than mom & dad's neighborhood "Cookies with Santa" event this past weekend. It was held at the clubhouse and was a BYOC event (bring your own cookies) while little cups of milk were provided. There were also holiday-themed crafts, a guy making balloon animals, and of course, Santa Claus.
Just like the past two years, this was our first attempt at a picture with Santa:
And then after some cookies, a baloon laser gun, and making a candy cane ornament, we tried for round 2. Bradley wanted to know where Santa's sleigh was, so we figured that a second attempt at a good picture with Santa would give B a chance to ask the Big Guy his pressing question.
Oh yeah, and Santa's answer about the sleigh? He left it at Walmart, he said!
Just like the past two years, this was our first attempt at a picture with Santa:
And then after some cookies, a baloon laser gun, and making a candy cane ornament, we tried for round 2. Bradley wanted to know where Santa's sleigh was, so we figured that a second attempt at a good picture with Santa would give B a chance to ask the Big Guy his pressing question.
Much better! Now these are photos I can live with, plus they were FREE.
And THIS is my money shot. It fits perfectly with the song lyric of Jolly Old Saint Nicholas- "whisper what you'll bring to me, tell me if you can."
Monday, December 12, 2011
Baking Day
After a brief hiatus from blogging, I've got plenty to post. First up: Baking Day.
On Saturday, mom, Laura & I spent ALL DAY in the kitchen making all kinds of Christmas cookies. Every time mom lamented about how long she personally had been in the kitchen... 8 a.m., 7, 6:30 a.m., the time got earlier and earlier. She has a flair for the dramatic- I don't know where on earth I get it from.
Here's me and B modeling our matching Elf aprons from St. Nick
This plate went to my coworkers today and was gone in bout 15 minutes. Another tray is going to daycare tomorrow, where, after doing the same thing last year, some of the ladies there have asked mom and me for an entire year when we're going to bake again! They are going to be so excited, I think.
I know I personally started in the kitchen around 9 a.m. on Saturday, and after my choir concert, I was back in the kitchen cleaning up til almost 10:30 p.m. on Saturday night. It was well worth it though. I'm a good sous chef if I do say so myself. And you know what they say: the family that bakes together
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